CARER, FRIEND & FAMILY SUPPORT

Caring For Someone You Love

Caring for someone living with a life-limiting illness can be deeply meaningful, but it can also bring uncertainty, responsibility and change.

You may find yourself learning about medications, attending appointments, making practical arrangements and supporting your loved one emotionally — while trying to manage your own life and wellbeing.

Franklin Hospice is here for you too. We can offer guidance, information and support to help you feel more confident and less alone.

CARER, FRIEND & FAMILY SUPPORT

SUPPORT FOR CARERS

You Are Part Of The Care Team Too

When someone you care about becomes seriously ill, your role may change in ways you never expected.

You might become the person coordinating appointments, helping with medication, noticing changes, talking with health professionals or supporting other family members.

There is no expectation that you should automatically know what to do.

Our team can help you understand what is happening, know who to contact and feel supported in the role you have taken on.

HOW WE CAN HELP

Practical Support When You Need It

Every caring situation is different. We can help you understand what support is available and make navigating care feel more manageable.

Understanding Care And What To Expect

Understanding Care And What To Expect

We can help you understand the patient’s care plan, what support Franklin Hospice provides and who to contact when you have questions.

Our team can also help explain changes you may notice and give you practical guidance about caring for someone at home.

Navigating Services And Support

Navigating Services And Support

Healthcare and community services can sometimes feel complicated.

We can help connect you with appropriate services, community resources and practical assistance, and support conversations with other healthcare providers.

Looking After Yourself

Looking After Yourself

Caring can be physically and emotionally demanding.

We encourage carers to look after their own wellbeing too and can connect you with counselling, support programmes and opportunities to talk with others who understand what caring can be like.

Caring For Yourself Is Part Of Caring For Someone Else

It is easy for your own needs to move to the bottom of the list when someone you love is seriously ill.

You may feel tired, anxious, guilty, overwhelmed or unsure about taking time for yourself. These feelings are common and there is no “right” way to cope.

Taking a break, accepting help and talking about how you are feeling are not signs that you are letting someone down.

  • Accept offers of practical help from family and friends
  • Take breaks when you are able
  • Keep up with your own health appointments
  • Talk openly when you are finding things difficult
  • Ask questions rather than carrying uncertainty alone
  • Stay connected with people and activities that support your wellbeing

You matter too — and support is available for you.

CONNECTION AND SUPPORT

Support Beyond Day-To-Day Caring

Franklin Hospice offers support for carers, family members and people who are bereaved. These programmes provide opportunities to connect with others, care for your own wellbeing and find support through grief and change.

Kōwhai

A welcoming space for carers and family members to connect with others who understand some of the challenges that come with supporting someone living with a life-limiting illness.

Kōwhai provides an opportunity to share experiences, receive information and encouragement, and spend time with others in a supportive environment.

A welcoming space for carers and family members to connect with others who understand some of the challenges that come with supporting someone living with a life-limiting illness.

Kōwhai provides an opportunity to share experiences, receive information and encouragement, and spend time with others in a supportive environment.

Walk Your Way Through Grief

Grief can feel isolating, and connecting with others can help.

Walk Your Way Through Grief combines gentle exercise, fresh air, conversation and companionship in an informal and supportive setting for people who have experienced the death of someone important to them.

Bereavement Support

Our support does not end when someone dies.

Everyone experiences grief differently. Franklin Hospice can offer a range of bereavement support, which may include individual counselling, telephone support, groups, information and resources, and connection with other appropriate services.

AFTER A DEATH

There Is No Right Way To Grieve

When caring ends, life can suddenly feel very different.

Some people feel intense sadness straight away. Others experience relief, exhaustion, numbness, uncertainty or a mixture of emotions.

There is no set timetable for grief.

Franklin Hospice can continue to support family members and loved ones before and after a death through counselling, groups, information, resources and appropriate referrals.

You do not have to work through grief on your own.

Support is available when you are ready.

WE ARE HERE FOR YOU

Supporting You While You Support Someone You Love

Whether you have questions about caring for someone at home, need help navigating support, want someone to talk to or are coping with grief after a death, Franklin Hospice is here to help.

You do not have to carry everything by yourself.